Parenting Guidelines and Tips for Dads and Parents. Education tips, baby product reviews, and much more! Newly adding Atlanta, Georgia trip and restaurant information for families with babies.
Monday, February 26, 2024
[ATL Restaurant Review] Postino in Buckhead
Thursday, February 15, 2024
Taking Care of Baby as a Job
Rewarding and Depressing
Rewards
- Bonding Time: You get to spend a great amount of time bonding with your child. The bond created from early childhood sets up for the remaining times. Every time I put my daughter in my arms, I think what a sad life it would have been if I didn't get to do it every day.
- Witnessing Milestones: Of course, the world has better cameras to record everything, but it's never the same to see it and feel it right there and then. I witnessed my child getting up holding the crib rail by herself. It was truly an amazing experience to see her take the first step forward.
- Creating Memories: I doubt every now and then, "How much of this will she remember?" Many research say babies remember a lot more than what we'd imagine. I still have some childhood memories or memories of memories that made me happy even when I was in my teens. I try to give my daughter new kinds of excitement every day hoping it'd create a good memory.
Depressing Moments
- Isolation: My wife works at home remotely. Even with her around, she is focused on her job mainly, as she should be. A lot of times, I feel isolated and lonely because our baby is too young to engage in social activities. My only outlet is through social media, but I can't be looking at the smartphone around the baby. I go almost all day without having interactions with people. It gets lonely.
- Loss of Identity: I used to work. I used to work with a lot of people. I used to interact with hundreds of people on a daily basis. It was part of who I was. Staying home makes me feel like I've lost my identity and ability to do anything else. I kind of lose sight of my purpose, because it doesn't seem like I'm bearing any fruit. I know that in the long run, it's significant, but not having any constant feedback, I lose track of where I am in my life.
- Loss of Control: Babies cry. They cry to communicate. Our daughter started to whine a lot more because she now has demands. It's hard to understand, though, what she wants. It makes you feel like you lose control. You don't have a clue what you need to do.
- Getting Held Up: I used to plan an agenda every day. I might not write them down, but it always revolve around my head. Caring for a baby takes away a lot of time from doing things I thought I'd get done. The list of to-do's calling my brain's attention really stresses me out.
How to Navigate
Wednesday, February 7, 2024
Infant Safety Helmet Review
Baby Safety Gear Must
First Attempt: Head Cushion
We first tried this type of head cushion. Our initial thought was that if she falls forward, she can use her arms and hands to protect the head. We were wrong about it. When she fell in any direction, our baby didn't have any way to protect herself.
Full Head Protection Helmet
Baby Safety Helmet Is a Must
Harmful Toys for Your Children
Why Flashing Toys Are Harmful
Flashing Toys
- Overstimulation: Flashing lights and loud noises from electronic toys can overwhelm a baby's developing sensory system. This overstimulation may lead to stress, agitation, and difficulty in focusing.
- Interference with Development: Instead of fostering natural curiosity and exploration, flashing toys provide excessive stimulation that can interfere with a child's ability to engage in imaginative play and develop essential cognitive skills.
- Limited Creativity: Flashing toys often dictate play patterns and offer limited opportunities for open-ended, creative play. This can hinder a child's imagination and problem-solving skills.
- Attention Span: Continuous exposure to flashy stimuli may contribute to shorter attention spans and decreased ability to focus on tasks, which are crucial skills for learning and development.
- Language Development: Research suggests that electronic toys with flashing lights and sounds may not support language development as effectively as traditional toys and interactions with caregivers.
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
How to Pick the Best Toys for Your Child
Things to Look Out for in Toys
- Safety First: Opt for toys that are free from small parts, sharp edges, and toxins. After 6 months, everything they grab goes into their mouth. Keep the play area clean and safe!
- Stimulation and Sensory Development: Look for toys that stimulate multiple senses, such as colorful rattles, textured balls, and soft plush toys. Try to stay away from the ones with too many LED lights or loud noises.
- Motor Skills: Toys like activity mats, play gyms, and stacking rings encourage motor skill development and hand-eye coordination.
- Exploration: Provide toys that promote exploration, such as teething rings, crinkle toys, and toys with mirrors. Give your child a space to put their imagination into the plays. A doll without a face forces your child to imagine the facial expressions.
- Quality Over Quantity: Limit the number of toys to avoid overwhelming the baby and focus on quality toys that offer various developmental benefits. Kids find creative ways to play with toys even if you don't guide them!
- Supervision: Always supervise playtime to ensure the baby's safety and intervene if necessary.
Saturday, January 27, 2024
Best Humidifier for Dry Winters, Levoit
Winters Are Dry, Keep It Moist for Your Baby
Amazon Link to Levoit Humidifier
Pros
- Large Water Tank
- Digital Display with humidity (Can be turned off during the night)
- Smart Control via App on Smart Phone
- Hot and Cool mist
- Easy to clean
- Quiet
- Target Humidity Setting
Cons
- Manually set mist outlet direction
- Bit bulky and heavy (with 6L of water filled)
- Hot mist requires some caution
Conclusion
Wednesday, January 24, 2024
Time Passes and It Passes Quick
Reflection on the Past 8 Months
You will never know the last time you pick up your child.
We are trying our best to capture all the significant moments on camera. Her first cry, first time trying baby food, first time standing up, and many more.
It's only been 8 months at the most, but we already started to miss those days. Memories linger by our fingertips as we swipe over each month in the cell phone gallery.
We know the best thing is the enjoy these moments and not dwell on the past. If good memories like these keep building on, I am sure the rest of the life will be meaningful.
Learning Theories
Learning Theories to Guide Your Child's Development
Understanding Learning Theories: Behaviorism, Cognitive Constructivism, Social Constructivism If I am going to teach my child, I want to do ...
















