Monday, February 26, 2024

[ATL Restaurant Review] Postino in Buckhead

Not Just Another Restaurant Reviewing Blog

One major change after we got a baby is where we eat. Up until now, we always had to carry our baby in the stroller, because she couldn't sit in the high chair by herself. We turned to delivery or pick-up to enjoy a bit of cold food served in plastic. 

We'd always have to pick spacious restaurants at less busy times. It narrowed our choices down a lot, especially in Los Angeles where all the popular restaurants are always packed with people. 

Now that we are in Atlanta, we are on our new expedition for good restaurants. I'll attempt to write reviews on some that we find worthy of a visit for young couples with a little one. 


Postino - Buckhead

The starter is Postino in Buckhead. 

Restaurant sign Postino in yellow with outdoor seating area

Wall art on a side of Postino restaurant


We visited on a Sunday afternoon for a brunch. I passed by it a few times around the neighborhood. It looked like a nice little brunch spot, so we gave it a try. 

Parking and Exterior



There was plenty of parking in the plaza. The picture only shows some spots in the front of the restaurant, but there are a bunch more in the back. It had a ramp for strollers and wheelchairs that led to the outdoor seating area. 

One wall had vibrant wall art. Definitely eye-catching. 


Interior and Space


The inside was cozy but spacious. It's geared towards a wine cafe with a good vibe. The decoration was of the 90s blockbuster movie posters.  

Not all tables could accommodate a stroller, but definitely, the outdoor tables had more space.  It wasn't busy at all by the time we got there. We decided to sit outdoors to enjoy the warm weather. 


Menu

Link to their menu: Click Here

They have a great variety of wine selections and food that deserves a glass of wine. Even if you are not drinking, the food is still great. 


two pieces of Italian Beef Dip panini with potato chips and dipping au jus sauce

Smoked salmon with cucumber, pickled onion, cornichons, crispy capers, baby caesar, crostini, whipped feta served on a wooden board

Prosquitto & Brie Panini and Brussels Sprouts Salad

We ordered 3 menus:

- Appetizer: Smoked Salmon
- Panini: Italian Beef Dip
- Select Two: Prosquitto & Brie Panini and Brussels Sprouts Salad

All ingredients were very fresh. You could taste each unique flavor and also amazing balance with all the dishes. It was very tempting to order a glass of wine (the happy hour menu is available too!). 

Quality of Service

We had a couple of servers switching. They said they don't have the designated table system. All the servers were very polite and friendly.  The food came out at a good pace and they were warm! Not on a plastic plate either!


Overall Experience

My wife and I, plus our daughter in a stroller, had a great experience at the restaurant. We would've enjoyed the night out with bottles of wine before the baby, but Sunday brunch did just fine. Spacious enough for a stroller, but we saw some other families with high chairs indoors as well. The people were delightful.

They didn't have a kids menu, so if your child is a bit older, you might want to take note of that. Paninis will do just fine. 

I would revisit the place to try out other things on the menu. 


Restaurant Info

Hours: 
 Mon - Thur: 11 AM - 11 PM
 Friday:         11 AM - 12 AM
 Saturday:     10 AM - 12 AM
 Sunday:       10 AM - 10 PM

Brunch Hours
 Sat-Sun: 10 AM - 2 PM

Address (Click below for Google Map)


Thursday, February 15, 2024

Taking Care of Baby as a Job

Rewarding and Depressing

Full-time staying-at-home parent is a tough job. It's rewarding for the most part, but it comes with lots of depressing moments. 

As I've been a stay-at-home parent for the last couple of months, I'll share my experiences. I hope this helps you to figure out why you or your partner is going through such a hardship.   

Rewards

  • Bonding Time: You get to spend a great amount of time bonding with your child. The bond created from early childhood sets up for the remaining times. Every time I put my daughter in my arms, I think what a sad life it would have been if I didn't get to do it every day. 
  • Witnessing Milestones: Of course, the world has better cameras to record everything, but it's never the same to see it and feel it right there and then. I witnessed my child getting up holding the crib rail by herself. It was truly an amazing experience to see her take the first step forward. 
  • Creating Memories: I doubt every now and then, "How much of this will she remember?" Many research say babies remember a lot more than what we'd imagine. I still have some childhood memories or memories of memories that made me happy even when I was in my teens.  I try to give my daughter new kinds of excitement every day hoping it'd create a good memory. 

Depressing Moments

  • Isolation: My wife works at home remotely. Even with her around, she is focused on her job mainly, as she should be. A lot of times, I feel isolated and lonely because our baby is too young to engage in social activities. My only outlet is through social media, but I can't be looking at the smartphone around the baby. I go almost all day without having interactions with people. It gets lonely.
  • Loss of Identity: I used to work. I used to work with a lot of people. I used to interact with hundreds of people on a daily basis. It was part of who I was. Staying home makes me feel like I've lost my identity and ability to do anything else. I kind of lose sight of my purpose, because it doesn't seem like I'm bearing any fruit. I know that in the long run, it's significant, but not having any constant feedback, I lose track of where I am in my life. 
  • Loss of Control: Babies cry. They cry to communicate. Our daughter started to whine a lot more because she now has demands. It's hard to understand, though, what she wants. It makes you feel like you lose control. You don't have a clue what you need to do. 
  • Getting Held Up: I used to plan an agenda every day. I might not write them down, but it always revolve around my head. Caring for a baby takes away a lot of time from doing things I thought I'd get done. The list of to-do's calling my brain's attention really stresses me out.

How to Navigate

Navigating the highs and lows of stay-at-home parenting with a baby under one year old requires resilience, support, and self-care. Resilience is difficult to practice and get better. Support from the family needs to be asked. It might not come naturally for all people. 

Self-care is where the most effort could shine the light. First and foremost is to realize that you, the stay-at-home parent, are struggling. Depression slips in unnotified. Set a time, in the morning, lunch, or before going to bed to check your status. See if you can think of anything to be thankful for or something happy. If not, you need to let your family know. Take a break. 

I take my daughter out for walks as much as the weather permits. It helps my daughter to develop, but it also gives me a chance to get some fresh air and clean out my system. Seeing the blue sky and floating clouds makes your day brighter, no matter how old you are. Try!

Remember, only happy parents can raise a happy child.

Wednesday, February 7, 2024

Infant Safety Helmet Review

 Baby Safety Gear Must


Around the sixth month, most babies start to crawl. It's when all the parents need to baby-proof the house. Covering all the sharp edges and corners of furniture, blocking the unused electric outlets, and locking the draws. 

When our daughter started to crawl, she learned fast. And she crawled very fast too. Sometimes, she couldn't control the weight of her head and fell forward or backward. So, we figured a safety helmet is a must. 


First Attempt: Head Cushion


Baby wearing a backpack like pink head cushion

We first tried this type of head cushion. Our initial thought was that if she falls forward, she can use her arms and hands to protect the head. We were wrong about it. When she fell in any direction, our baby didn't have any way to protect herself. 

This type of protection wasn't too helpful when she fell forward or sideways. We had to return the product.


Full Head Protection Helmet


This is the one I found on Amazon. We are very satisfied with the product. 
Outer box of Toddle Cap (Safety Helmet)

Side view of outer box of toddler cap (safety helmet)

Baby Safety Helmet wrapped in plastic bag

Toddler Cap (Safety Helmet) without the plastic bag

It protects the head all around and is size-adjustable with velcro on the back. 

Toddler Cap under view to show the chin strap

It also has a strap around the chin to keep it in place. 

Baby's head wearing the safety helmet

Another back view of the safety helmet on a baby

Our daughter eventually learned to hold her head up even when falling to avoid her head crashing into things. Still, she sometimes stumbles on stuff and falls on her face or head first. 

She doesn't like to have things fixed on her head, but we always put on the helmet when we leave her to play by herself in the playpen. Those few times we left her without the helmet, she hit her head on the floor hard. So, we make sure to keep it on her.



Baby Safety Helmet Is a Must

The brain is one of the most crucial parts of the body. It is also very weak, especially during the developing stages of early childhood. It must be protected at all times. Babies don't have the neck muscles to control their heads when they first start to crawl. The helmet can be a great protection aid if your baby is active and likes to travel on her own. 

You do need to keep in mind that you can't fasten the helmet too tight on the baby's head. It is harmful to the developing brain. Read the manual carefully and follow the cautions.

Keep your baby's head from any damage!





Harmful Toys for Your Children

 Why Flashing Toys Are Harmful


In the last blog post How to Pick the Best Toys for Your Child, I stated to avoid toys with too many LED flashing functions. In this blog post, let's explore further the reasons why they might be harmful to your children.

Baby playing with wooden blocks


Flashing Toys

Flashing toys, with their bright lights and captivating sounds, may seem like a fun choice for engaging young children. However, research and child development experts caution against their use, especially for infants under 12 months old. Here's why flashing toys can be harmful:

  1. Overstimulation: Flashing lights and loud noises from electronic toys can overwhelm a baby's developing sensory system. This overstimulation may lead to stress, agitation, and difficulty in focusing.
  2. Interference with Development: Instead of fostering natural curiosity and exploration, flashing toys provide excessive stimulation that can interfere with a child's ability to engage in imaginative play and develop essential cognitive skills.
  3. Limited Creativity: Flashing toys often dictate play patterns and offer limited opportunities for open-ended, creative play. This can hinder a child's imagination and problem-solving skills. 
  4. Attention Span: Continuous exposure to flashy stimuli may contribute to shorter attention spans and decreased ability to focus on tasks, which are crucial skills for learning and development.
  5. Language Development: Research suggests that electronic toys with flashing lights and sounds may not support language development as effectively as traditional toys and interactions with caregivers.
Given these concerns, it's best to opt for simpler, more traditional toys that encourage hands-on exploration, sensory development, and imaginative play. These also apply to Media exposure and Cell phone usage by babies. By providing babies with toys that align with their developmental needs, we can foster healthy growth and learning experiences.  Keep it as natural as possible!

Tuesday, February 6, 2024

How to Pick the Best Toys for Your Child

 Things to Look Out for in Toys

Have I mentioned that the Toy Story series is my favorite movie of all time? I've had a lot of toys when I was a kid. Good fond memories of each one of them. I don't remember much about choosing them on the shelves of Toys R Us. I do remember I played the heck out of those plastics. 

Infant playing with toys



Toys play a crucial role in the development of infants under 12 months old, but selecting the right ones is paramount. Here's a guide to address concerns about toys for this age group:


  1. Safety First: Opt for toys that are free from small parts, sharp edges, and toxins. After 6 months, everything they grab goes into their mouth. Keep the play area clean and safe!
  2. Stimulation and Sensory Development: Look for toys that stimulate multiple senses, such as colorful rattles, textured balls, and soft plush toys. Try to stay away from the ones with too many LED lights or loud noises. 
  3. Motor Skills: Toys like activity mats, play gyms, and stacking rings encourage motor skill development and hand-eye coordination. 
  4. Exploration: Provide toys that promote exploration, such as teething rings, crinkle toys, and toys with mirrors. Give your child a space to put their imagination into the plays. A doll without a face forces your child to imagine the facial expressions.
  5. Quality Over Quantity: Limit the number of toys to avoid overwhelming the baby and focus on quality toys that offer various developmental benefits. Kids find creative ways to play with toys even if you don't guide them! 
  6. Supervision: Always supervise playtime to ensure the baby's safety and intervene if necessary. 

Remember, every child is unique, so observe their interests and reactions to determine which toys best suit their needs. By prioritizing safety and development, you can provide a nurturing environment for your little one's early exploration and learning journey. Keep the curiosity going!

Saturday, January 27, 2024

Best Humidifier for Dry Winters, Levoit

Winters Are Dry, Keep It Moist for Your Baby


<This is not a sponsored advertisement. All the comments below are from my experience and my own words.>

For most parts of the U.S., winters get dry. Except for Florida, where it's humid all year long, and California, where it rains a lot during winter.

Babies are sensitive to humidity. It affects their breathing, sleep cycle, and possible disease in the respiratory system. 

It is recommended to keep at least 40 ~ 60% humidity for babies and toddlers. I've found this humidifier that saves a lot of hassles.


Amazon Link to Levoit Humidifier


White humidifier with a phone screen to show Bluetooth connection


Pros

  • Large Water Tank
  • Digital Display with humidity (Can be turned off during the night)
  • Smart Control via App on Smart Phone
  • Hot and Cool mist
  • Easy to clean
  • Quiet
  • Target Humidity Setting 
I personally love this product. It's the best humidifier I've ever used so far. 

One thing I was very impressed with when I first filled up the tank was how the drain holes were built. I could see the designers have put a lot of thought into it. My other humidifiers had either unique shapes where I couldn't get my hands into the tank to clean all corners, or the water wouldn't drain completely. It has a large opening on top and holes are built at the very edge to enable complete drainage. 

Smart Control via a smartphone app is very convenient. If I lay down to sleep and forget to turn on the humidifier for my child, I can just use the app to do so. I can set the target humidity, turn off the display to keep it dark, and even have the mist hot or cool. The app has a lot of features like setting a routine or scheduling the operation in advance. 

Cons

  • Manually set mist outlet direction
  • Bit bulky and heavy (with 6L of water filled)
  • Hot mist requires some caution
The cons wouldn't be such a big deal if it wasn't for our children. Getting over the 8-month mark, my daughter stands up pulling on everything. We put the humidifier on top of a small side table, which is at a great height for my daughter to pull on. 

Levoit Humidifier has a sleek design and doesn't feel bulky for holding 6 Liters of water. However, when it comes to having a possibility it might fall on a child is scary. You will need sturdy furniture that is somewhat water-resistant to put the humidifier on. 

Hot mist does get hot, especially near the mist outlet. You need to use caution not to have your child get burned. 

Again, the cons aren't really a big deal as long as you use caution as you should with your children.


Conclusion

It is now priced at $109.99 on both the official website (16% coupon available as of Jan 27, 2024) and Amazon. I think it's worth every penny. The IoT smart technology really saves a lot of hassle. 

If you did so well in putting your child to sleep, you don't want to walk back in there to cause any disruptions to turn on a humidifier. Do it on your phone!

I recommend this product for all families, especially with newborns. 

Happy Moist Sleeping!


Wednesday, January 24, 2024

Time Passes and It Passes Quick

Reflection on the Past 8 Months 

Every time I look at my daughter, I think 'Wow, she grew a lot.' 
It's not only me thinking. She actually is growing really fast. 

She already outgrew a lot of the clothes she got as a welcome-to-the-world gift. Her crib looks smaller. She keeps on meeting the end of the bed too soon when she crawls. 

My wife and I were worried we'd sprain our back leaning into the crib to put our baby. Now she stands holding the rail. It's already time for the second shift down on the mattress level. 

I've heard many others say that the early days will be missed. 

You will never know the last time you pick up your child. 


We are trying our best to capture all the significant moments on camera. Her first cry, first time trying baby food, first time standing up, and many more. 

It's only been 8 months at the most, but we already started to miss those days. Memories linger by our fingertips as we swipe over each month in the cell phone gallery. 


We know the best thing is the enjoy these moments and not dwell on the past. If good memories like these keep building on, I am sure the rest of the life will be meaningful.  



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