Friday, September 29, 2023

Living With Kittens vs. Baby

Taking Care of Kittens vs. Baby

My wife and I didn't have a fine blueprint for our family when we got married. Then we decided to adopt a Russian Blue kitten because she was too adorable.

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We got along pretty well. She is an intelligent cat. One that is so adorable. 


A few years passed by, my wife and I started to get busy with life. Our little furry friend looked lonely. So, we decided to adopt another kitten, a friendly, hyper-active cheese tabby.

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We thought they were a big responsibility. We couldn't go on a vacation for extended periods of time, we had to break them apart when they got into a catfight (literally) and visit a vet's office.

Now came the baby. It's a whole different story. Two cats were easy. They didn't even need potty training! 

In this post, we will explore some differences between raising a kitten and a baby.

1. Independence vs. Dependency

  • Cat: Cats are generally independent animals. They groom themselves, use a litter box, and don't require constant attention or supervision. In fact, a lot of cats dislike it when human keeps tailing them around. 
  • Baby: Babies are entirely dependent on their caregivers for all their needs, including feeding, diaper changes, and emotional support. They demand round-the-clock care and attention.

2. Communication

  • Cat: Even though our cats respond when we call their names, English isn't their strong suit. They communicate non-verbally through body language and vocalizations. We need to observe carefully to understand their needs.
  • Baby: Babies communicate through crying, facial expressions, and eventually, words. It is much easier to understand their non-verbal cues than the cat's. 

3. Development Stages

  • Cat: Cats go through distinct life stages, from kittenhood to adulthood. They were cute little kittens for about 2 months and then boom, all grown cats.
  • Baby: Babies go through complex developmental stages, including physical, cognitive, and emotional growth. Milestones encompass motor skills, language acquisition, and emotional bonding.  

4. Healthcare

  • Cat: Cats require routine veterinary care, vaccinations, and preventive measures like flea control. Health concerns are typically more straightforward.
  • Baby: Babies need regular medical check-ups, vaccinations, and monitoring of developmental milestones. Caregivers must be vigilant about various health aspects.

5. Social and Emotional Bonds

  • Cat: Cats can form strong bonds with their owners, offering companionship and comfort. However, these bonds are different from human relationships.
  • Baby: Parenting involves deeply emotional and complex bonds with your child, shaping their emotional well-being and future.

Conclusion

Raising a cat or baby is both very rewarding experience with ample share of challenges. Across the species, between the living beings, we can build life-long relationships. I still think back to the moments when the 2 cats and our baby all first came into my arms and falling asleep safe and sound. It was a feeling like "I have no one else in this world but you to depend my life." The soul to soul connection is an unforgettable moment. Kittens and human babies have a lot of differences, but after all, they are all really cute.


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